Saturday, February 29, 2020

Unnecessary Stress

Worrying about things you can't control only adds to unnecessary stress. ~ Life Quotes To Live By ~
Last week I had a conversation with a friend. I was telling her about a wonderful job a friend we both knew had gotten.
What was interesting was her response. Right away she was very happy. However, she surprised me by saying, "Oh if I had known they needed to find a new job I would have been worried sick."
Can you see she would have given herself added stress over something she couldn't control?
Our Bible verse says, Which of you by being over-anxious can add a single foot to his height? Matthew 6:27 Leave all your worries with Him because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7
Some people would be 10 feet tall if their worrying was added to their height. We should leave all of our worries with the Lord because He cares for us.
Worrying about things you can't control only adds to unnecessary stress.

Friday, February 28, 2020

Negative Thoughts

Sometimes it's not the pain that makes you suffer, it's your own negative thoughts that make things worse. ~ Life Quotes ~
The way we think about something can make all the difference in our lives. What consumes our mind controls our life. Negative thoughts only have one purpose...to destroy you!
Our Bible verse is one I have highlighted in my Bible. "The thought of my pain is bitter poison. I think of it constantly and my spirit is depressed. Yet hope returns when I remember this one thing: The Lord's unfailing love and mercy continues. Lamentations 3:19 TEV
Negative thoughts are bitter poison. They make us feel depressed! Yet when we change our thoughts and think of the Lord's love and mercy we have hope once again.
Sometimes it's not the pain that makes you suffer, it's your own negative thoughts that make things worse.

Thursday, February 27, 2020

Length, Width, Depth

You can't do anything about the length of your life. But you can do something about its width and depth. ~ Life Quotes ~
No one knows how long you're going to live. But we can live a deep and meaningful life when we live a life of love.
Our Bible verse says, "And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep His love is." Ephesians 3:18
Once we understand how deep God's love is we can live a meaningful life.
You can't do anything about the length of your life. But you can do something about its width and depth.

Wednesday, February 26, 2020

No Time For Drama

People with purpose have no time for drama. They invest their energy and focus on living a positive life. ~ Life Quotes To Live By ~
Nothing can drain our energy faster than drama. There's a big difference between drama and listening to a person who has a real problem. Part of living a positive life is showing love and kindness whenever we can.
I have this Bible verse written in the front of my Bible. "Let us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, on whom our faith depends from beginning to end." Hebrews 12:2 GNT
When we keep our eyes fixed (focused) on Jesus we will invest our energy in living a positive life and avoid drama.
People with purpose have no time for drama. They invest their energy and focus on living a positive life.

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Get It Done

Today is the perfect day to get things done. ~ Get It Done Quotes ~
Much of the stress we feel doesn't come from having too much to do. It comes from not finishing what we started. On a personal note, I started writing birthdays down on our calendar in January. Today I actually finished! 
Today's Bible verse says, "If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done." Ecclesiastes 11:4 BG
If we use the excuse this isn't the right time we will never get things done.
Today is the perfect day to get things done.

Monday, February 24, 2020

Something New

Let today be the start of something new. ~ Life Quotes ~
Life becomes more interesting if every day we look for something new.
Our Bible verse says, "See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?" Isaiah 43:19 NIV
God is always doing something new. Today is a great day to keep our minds and eyes open to see the new thing God has for us.
Let today be the start of something new.

Sunday, February 23, 2020

Untangle The Knot

When we get tangled up in our problems, Be Still. God wants us to be still so He can untangle the knot. ~ Life Quotes ~
It's hard sometimes to just be still when we have problems. For some reason, we want to think and talk about them. Maybe the best thing to do is to be still and put the problems in God's hands.
Our Bible verse says, “Be still and know that I am God..." Psalm 46:10 BSB
We have a little dish that sits on our coffee table with the words, "Be Still And Know That I Am" written on it. I keep it there to remind myself to remember that God is handling my problems.
When we get tangled up in our problems, Be Still. God wants us to be still so He can untangle the knot.

Saturday, February 22, 2020

Why It All Happened

Some day you'll look back and understand why it all happened the way it did. ~ Life Quotes ~
There are so many things we don't understand. We ask, "Why did this happen the way that it did?"
Our Bible verse tells us someday we will know. "Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely." 1 Corinthians 13:12 NLT
Now we see things imperfectly. However, one day we will see everything with perfect clarity. Some day we will understand why.
Some day you'll look back and understand why it all happened the way it did.

Friday, February 21, 2020

Benefits Of Trusting God

Faith is like radar that sees through the fog. ~ Benefits Of Trusting God Quotes
When we have faith we may not know how something is going to work out but we trust God to bring good out of it. It's amazing what benefits trusting God can bring, including health.
Our Bible verses today can help us to see the benefits of trusting God. "Trust in the LORD with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know. Never let yourself think that you are wiser than you are; simply respect the LORD and refuse to do wrong. If you do, it will be like good medicine, healing your wounds and easing your pains.' Proverbs 3: 5-8
This is amazing! We all know that stress and worry are not healthy for our bodies. If we trust the LORD and stop trying to figure everything out it will be like good medicine.
Faith is like radar that sees through the fog.

Thursday, February 20, 2020

Write It Down

Before I forget! Let me write it down. ~ Before I Forget Quotes ~
I don't know about you I may have very good intentions, but I tend to forget sometimes. When I write things down it helps me to remember.
Our Bible verse today tells us that even God writes things down.
I will never forget you. I can never forget you! I have written your name on the palms of My hands. Isaiah 49:15 & 16 GNT In Luke 10:20 it says, "Rejoice that your names are written in Heaven.”
It's wonderful to know that God will never forget us. Our names are written in Heaven and He has our names written on the palms of His hands.  Is your name written there?  If you don't know you better look into it.  

Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Your Own Thoughts

The biggest source of motivation are your own thoughts. Whether you think you can or think you can't you're right! ~ Motivational Quotes ~
We talk to ourselves all the time. We may even have a running dialog going on in our minds. Why not think thoughts that will motivate you.
Our Bible verse points this out perfectly. Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts. Proverbs 4:23 GNT
We need to be very careful about how we think. We can motivate ourselves so discourage ourselves. It's our choice!
The biggest source of motivation are your own thoughts. Whether you think you can or think you can't you're right!

Tuesday, February 18, 2020

Hang Out

This morning when I was out shoveling my neighbor's dog Ellie came out. Ellie knows when I'm outside I give her a treat and throw her the ball. This is our relationship.
Ellie has a brother, William, by another mother. William is a cat. What is different about William is that he doesn't want a treat. In the summer William comes over just to hang out.
I thought about each of these relationships this morning and compared them to our relationship with God.
There's nothing wrong with expecting God to give us things we enjoy. But how nice it must be for the LORD to spend time with us when we just want to 'hang out' with Him.

Peace On The Inside

When you have peace on the inside, the troubles on the outside won't bother you as much. ~ Life Quotes 
One way to have peace on the inside is to mind your own business. Accepting people where they are on the way to where they are going will help keep us peaceful on the inside.
Our Bible verse says, "Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before." 1 Thessalonians 4:11 NLT
It's hard to do at times to mind our own business but this is one way to stay peaceful on the inside.
When you have peace on the inside, the troubles on the outside won't bother you as much.

Monday, February 17, 2020

Not Expecting It

Kindness can be the greatest gift you can give a person. Especially when they are not expecting it. ~ Life Quotes ~
We all like to receive unexpected kindness. Since we enjoy it, why not be the one who gives this gift.
Our Bible verse says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Ephesians 4:2 NIV
I believe one way to be happy is to be kind. Adding compassion and forgiveness will be an unexpected gift we can give.
Kindness can be the greatest gift you can give a person. Especially when they are not expecting it.

Sunday, February 16, 2020

How You React

It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters. ~ Life Quotes
We all go through things in our lives. Some are worse than others. However, it's not what happens, but how we deal with it that makes all the difference.
Today's Bible verse says, "Why am I discouraged? Why am I restless? I should trust you, LORD. I will praise you again because you help me." Psalm 42:5 CEV
We all get discouraged and restless at times. But in those times we can encourage ourselves by putting our trust in the LORD. When we trust the LORD, we will praise Him because we know He will help us.
It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.

Saturday, February 15, 2020

The Special Snowsuit

"Can you tell me if anyone in our store does community service?" Bill asked. A person spoke up and said," I know that Rose does. She helps the homeless at her church." Bill, my husband, had recently been transferred to this store as the Store Manager. Bill liked to recognize employees who worked in community service. He met with Rose and found out about the outreach program operating out of her inner-city church. Bill told Rose that he thought that I would enjoy helping her.
When Bill came home that night after the two-hour commute, he told me about his conversation with Rose. I was excited at the idea of helping in such a program. I started to spread the word that Bill had an employee who was helping the homeless out of her church. I asked if anyone wanted to help by donating usable items. The response was amazing. We lived in a small community where homelessness was unheard of. We had our share of poor people, but to the best of my knowledge, no one was living on the street.
Word spread like wildfire. Churches were calling, offering clothing and food. Once a week I stopped by a church in a nearby town. Each week I loaded the back end of our van with the things the people in their congregation dropped off. An older couple from our congregation gave us a check and told us to use the money to buy Bibles and inspirational materials to take to the mission. On several occasions, I came home and found bags of clothing sitting in front of our garage. Every day when Bill drove to work, his car was loaded with help for the homeless, given by total strangers.
I took this opportunity to clean out the closets in our home, too. Bill had an overcoat he seldom wore. I put the overcoat in, along with clothes our children had outgrown and several articles of clothing of my own. Every so often Rose would stop in Bill's office and tell him stories about the mission. One day she talked about an overcoat that her minister had taken from the clothes we had donated. As Rose described the overcoat, Bill knew it was his. He was happy that he had been able to provide this young minister with a warm coat.
One cold day I walked by our downstairs closet. I noticed a snowmobile suit that had been our oldest son, Todd's. The thought to put this snowsuit in for the mission immediately came to my mind. I dismissed the thought as I had been saving this snowsuit for Brandon, our youngest son. Todd had died in a car accident a few years before and for some reason, I had saved this snowmobile suit for Brandon. This was one of the very few things I had saved of Todd's. I couldn't believe that the LORD would want me to give up this "special" snowsuit I had been saving all these years. The thought came again, "Put the snowmobile suit in." I walked over and took it off the hanger. I looked at the tag inside. It was a man's size small. When Todd died, he was six feet tall. How long had I been keeping this? Brandon wasn't quite three years old when Todd died. Even now he wasn't big enough for this suit. I decided it was time to part with this "special" snowmobile suit I'd been saving. I took it off the hanger and laid it lovingly on top of a bag of other clothes for the mission.
Bill's old store was closing. Almost everything in the store was gone. Now they were getting rid of the racks. We knew the mission could use the racks to hang the clothes on. We rented a Ryder truck and loaded several racks in. We stopped by another church to pick up clothes before we headed two hours north to the mission. Since we'd rented this truck, I decided to ride along. Usually, Bill took everything to his store. Then Rose's husband would come in and pick the things up. Since we had the truck, we were going to drive to the mission and drop the items off. Rose's husband met us at the store and jumped in the truck to give us directions to the church where the mission was located.
It was a cold day in Cleveland. The wind was blowing and the snow was beginning to fall as we drove in the area where the mission was. As I looked around I could see that this neighborhood was certainly not like the ones I knew. As we pulled up in front of the church I noticed that all of the windows had bars on them. The front door had a huge chain going through the handles.
We stopped the truck in front of the church and opened the door. As we were getting out of the truck, a small black man with a big toothless smile came out to greet us. He ran over to the truck and offered to help. I looked at this man and I looked at Bill. I couldn't believe my eyes. This little man had Todd's snowmobile suit on! Tears filled my eyes.
The next day Rose walked in Bill's office and asked, "Did you see the man in the snowsuit at the mission?" When Bill said he had, Rose said, "You know Bill, there's a story behind that snowsuit." Rose went on to tell Bill how this little homeless man was always around to help. Rose said that the day this snowsuit came in he had picked up the bag and the snowsuit fell at his feet. He picked it up and asked if he could try it on. Rose told Bill that she thought it was "rather foolish" that a grown man would want a one-piece snowsuit like this, but she told him to go ahead and try it on. When he tried it on, it fit perfectly! He told Rose that all his life he had wanted a snowsuit like this, and now he finally had one.
When Bill came home and told me this story, the LORD spoke to my heart and said,"Kay, you were wondering why you were saving that snowmobile suit all these years; now you know!" All these years I'd thought I was saving this special snowmobile suit for our son, Brandon. Now I knew that I was actually saving it for a special child of God who had always wanted one.

Friday, February 14, 2020

Think!

Think like the person you want to become. ~ Wisdom Quotes ~
It is so important how we think about ourselves.  I've heard if you want to know what you'll be like in the years ahead, think about what you're thinking about.
Our Bible verse is one of my favorites. Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts. Proverbs 4:23 GNT
We need to be very careful about how we think. Our life is shaped by our thoughts.
Think like the person you want to become.

Thursday, February 13, 2020

Lived To Be Understood

Life is a succession of lessons that must be lived to be understood. Ralph Waldo Emerson
We all know after we have lived through something we understand it much better than just having someone tell us about it.
Our Bible verse seems kinda strange at first. "Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy." James 1:2 NLT
How could we ever consider troubles as an opportunity for joy? I believe if we see the things we go through as an opportunity to learn and have a better understanding it can be a positive experience.
Life is a succession of lessons that must be lived to be understood.

Wednesday, February 12, 2020

Persistence

A river cuts through a rock not because of its power, but because of its persistence. ~ Persistence Quotes ~
Years ago when I was in school I learned a poem. Here are a few words that have stuck with me ever since. "If At First, You Don't Succeed Try Try Again."
I've thought of these words many times in my life. Most things don't just fall into place the first time. We normally have to be persistent to be successful at anything.
Our Bible verse says, "No matter how often honest people fall, they always get up again;..." Proverbs 24:16
When we are persistent it doesn't matter how many times we fall we will get back up again.
A river cuts through a rock, not because of its power, but because of its persistence.

Tuesday, February 11, 2020

Wisdom Is Common Sense

Wisdom is doing now what you are going to be happy with later on. ~ Common Sense Quotes 
The difference in who you are and who you want to be is what you do. When we use our common sense we most likely know what we need to do. We may not like it now but later on, we will.
Our Bible verse is very helpful. "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." James 1:5 NIV
We may not think we know what to do now. However, this verse says to ask God for the wisdom that you need.
Wisdom is doing now what you are going to be happy with later on.

Monday, February 10, 2020

I Have A Right

Have you ever thought when you're sad, "I have a right to feel this way?" I've even said, "I have a right and a reason to feel this way."
We may have a right and even a reason to feel or be the way we are. But that doesn't mean we need to stay that way.
One day when I was thinking, "I have a right to feel sad" another thought came, "Yes you do have a right to feel sad, but you also have a right to feel happy."
There are two Bible verses I have come to love. "In the world, you'll have trouble. But cheer up! I have overcome the world." John 16:33 GWT And "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly." John 10:10 ESV
In this world, we will have trouble. The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy. This is true! We may have a reason to be sad. But let's not forget, Jesus came to give us an abundant life right here on earth so we can cheer up!
We may have a right and a reason to feel sad, but we also have a right and a reason to feel happy too.

Who Are You Listening To?

The voice we listen to most is the one we will hear the loudest. ~ Who Are You Listening To Quotes ~
We need to consider the source when we are listening to our thoughts. We should ask, "Where is this thought coming from?"
If we want to move forward in life we need to consider the source. Why? Because the voice we listen to most is the one that will be the loudest.
Our Bible verses say, "Your own ears will hear Him. Right behind you, a voice will say, “This is the way you should go,” whether to the right or to the left." Isaiah 30:21 "My sheep listen to My voice; I know them, and they follow Me. John 10:27 NLT
When we listen consistently to the LORD His voice will be the loudest. We will know what is the right thing to do. We will hear Him talking to us in a positive way. "God is light; in Him, there is no darkness at all." 1 John 1:5
The voice we listen to most is the one we will hear the loudest.

Sunday, February 9, 2020

Handling Life

Broken crayons still color. ~ Handling Life Quotes ~
We all have been through situations in life that have left us broken at times. It's wonderful to know that these situations can be used to bring color to life.
I love this Bible verse. "And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them." Romans 8:28 NLT
When we love God and we are called according to His purpose He does cause everything to work together for good. Even the situations in our lives that have left us broken.
We're all a little broken at times but the last time I checked broken crayons still color.

Saturday, February 8, 2020

Your Greatest Lessons

Sometimes the things that hurt you the most teach you the greatest lessons. ~ Life Quotes ~
If we can learn something from the painful experiences we go through these can be our greatest lessons.
Our Bible verse is one I have highlighted in my Bible. "Sometimes it takes a painful experience to make us change our ways." Proverbs 20:30 TEV
At times it does take a painful experience to help us to see where we need to change.
Sometimes the things that hurt you the most teach you the greatest lessons.

Friday, February 7, 2020

Only Look Back

Keep moving forward. Only look back to see how far you have come. ~ Moving Forward Quotes ~
We are all on a journey through life. Our memories are the markers. These markers are necessary to remember where we have been and how far we have come.
Our Bible verses say, "Remember that the LORD your God led you on the entire journey..." Deuteronomy 8:2 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:14
When we look back we can remember how the LORD has led us. But we must keep moving forward on our journey to reach our goal.
Keep moving forward. Only look back to see how far you have come.

Thursday, February 6, 2020

Is It Just Another Day?

The world changes from year to year, our lives from day to day, but the love and memory of you shall never pass away. ~ Is It Just Another Day Quotes ~
Quite honestly it is not just another day. Anyone who has a child die knows that the day they left this earth is not just another day. No matter how much you may want it to be, just another day, it just isn't.
Our Bible verse says, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4 NIV
God does bless those who mourn in many different ways. He blesses them with people who honestly show love and are caring. He blesses you with eyes to see life in a totally different way. He blesses you with the ability to not take a day for granted. The list goes on and on.
The world changes from year to year, our lives from day to day, but the love and memory of you shall never pass away.

Wednesday, February 5, 2020

Your Mindset

Your life is as good as your mindset. ~ Living Your Best Life Quotes ~
There are different ways of looking at something. If you only see what's wrong with everything that's all you will see. However, if you choose to look for the good, you'll see that too.
Our Bible verse says, "Finally brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable--if there is any moral excellence and if there is anything praiseworthy--dwell on these things." Philippians 4:8 CSB
When we dwell on whatever is praiseworthy etc we have set our minds of things that are worth thinking about. When we do we will be living our best life.
Your mind is as good as your mindset.

Tuesday, February 4, 2020

Don't Blame Others

Don't let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace. ~ Don't Blame Others Quotes ~
Keeping your peace is powerful. If we want to be free we have to stand up for ourselves. We have to take responsibility to not take the bait and get mad every time someone upsets us.
When we take responsibility to keep our peace this is freedom. We can't control everything or everybody. It's not their responsibility not to upset us. If we keep our peace we can be free no matter what is going on. Run your own life and stand up for yourself by keeping your peace.
Our Bible verse says, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27 NIV
We have peace because Jesus has given us His peace. We have to take responsibility and let not our hearts be troubled. We can do this when we stop blaming our upset on others or circumstances.
Don't let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.

Monday, February 3, 2020

Your Time

One of the greatest gifts you can give is your time. ~ Volunteer Quotes ~
I've spent a lot of my life volunteering. I thought I must have 1.800. call Kay on my forehead. I got a kick out of people calling and saying, "Someone gave me your name." I oftentimes wondered who "someone" was.
Being a volunteer has so many benefits. You work for a cause, not applause. My elderly (age 99) friend, Arlene, talked a lot about volunteering. She often told me, "If you want to get things done you need to find people who are volunteers."
Our Bible verse says, "So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver." 2 Corinthians 9:7 NKJV
We do not need to give our time to everything people want us to do. We are to give as we purpose in our hearts. Volunteering is not something we have to do. It's something we want to do with a cheerful heart.
One of the greatest gifts you can give is your time.

Sunday, February 2, 2020

Decide What To Do

All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us. ~ Make Good Use Of Your Time Quotes ~
There are times when it's hard to go to sleep at night. There are also times when we wake up in the middle of the night. When this happens we have to decide what to do.
At this time there are a lot of things that can run through our minds that will cause us to worry and be stressed if we let it. Or we can use this time thanking the Lord for all He has done in our past, in our present, and all He will do in the future.
Our Bible verse says, "Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good! His faithful love endures forever." Psalm 107:1 NLT
When we can't get to sleep or when we wake up in the middle of the night we can repeat this Bible verse. We can think of all the good things to thank the LORD for and how His faithful love will last forever.
All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

Saturday, February 1, 2020

Enjoy Life Today

Enjoy life today. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow may never come. ~ Life Quotes ~
I think about these things in February because this is the month our son, Todd, died.
When Todd left the house to enjoy his day by going sledding with friends he may have been thinking about the past. The reason being that this was the date my dad had died. I believe he was thinking about tomorrow because we had made plans to go skiing the next day. But tomorrow never came for Todd.
Our Bible verse says, "This is the day which the LORD has made; Let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalm 118:24 NASB
This is the day the LORD has made and we should enjoy it!
Enjoy life today. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow may never come.